Good morning lovees!! What a beautifully chilly snowy morning we're having! Thank you for the snow mother nature, but I was quite enjoying the sun, can we have it back, pwease?!?!?? Lol!!
As I'm getting older, and with all that I've gone through, I find myself wanting peace. I don't have time for useless conflict or constant bickering. I just don't. Not only that, I don't like negative emotions. I try to remain positive and upbeat every day. Negativity wears on me and I can't do it. I can't, and I won't, or try not to.
Not only am I a positive girl, I'm a giver by nature. Maybe you are too. When you give and give, people take and take. As givers, we have to be careful we don't give too much and leave nothing for ourselves. It's easy for us to be taken advantage of. It's also easy for us to lose our voice. We don't like or want conflict, so we say nothing. We have to stop doing this. There is nothing wrong with healthy discussions that bring forth resolution. Read that again. Healthy conversations are good for us. Unhealthy ones aren't. We don't have to show up for every argument we are invited to. We can choose to walk away from unhealthy conversations and situations.
Maybe today you feel...stuck or trapped. Because you are afraid to speak. Find your voice. Lean on other's for strength, but find your voice!! You don't have to speak unkindly, you just need to speak. If you don't, it will fester inside of you and that's not healthy. Do whatever you need to do today to find your voice and use it. Your mind, body and spirit will thank you.
Have a blessed day friends. Even in the cold and snow, it can still be a blessed day, if you choose it to be.
Love and hugs...
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